GH-49538: [C++][FlightRPC][ODBC] Use static linkage in Windows FlightSQL ODBC driver #6043

Job	Run time
check-labels / Check labels	26s
ODBC Linux	2m 18s
ODBC Windows	19m 56s
JNI macOS	7m 29s
JNI ubuntu-24.04-arm arm64v8	19m 57s
AMD64 Ubuntu Meson	3m 10s
AMD64 Alpine Linux	7m 44s
JNI ubuntu-latest amd64	19m 57s
AMD64 Debian C++23	5m 31s
AMD64 Ubuntu Large Memory Tests	14m 15s
ODBC debug AMD64 macOS 15-intel	10m 33s
ODBC release ARM64 macOS 14	6m 44s
ODBC release AMD64 macOS 15-intel	20m 13s
ODBC debug ARM64 macOS 14	4m 56s
ARM64 Windows 11 MSVC / windows	20m 3s
ODBC nightly	1s
ODBC release	1s
report-extra-cpp	0s
	2h 43m 14s

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