fix(deps): exclude dds extra from --all-extras (#1318)

cyclonedds requires a source build with CYCLONEDDS_HOME set, which
fails on standard dev machines. Updated install docs to use
`uv sync --all-extras --no-extra dds` and added a note to the dds
extra in pyproject.toml.

Author: spomichter

README.md

@@ -177,7 +177,7 @@ export GIT_LFS_SKIP_SMUDGE=1
 git clone -b dev https://github.com/dimensionalOS/dimos.git
 cd dimos
 
-uv sync --all-extras
+uv sync --all-extras --no-extra dds
 
 # Run fast test suite
 uv run pytest dimos

docs/installation/nix.md

@@ -44,10 +44,7 @@ cd dimos
 # enter the nix development shell (provides system deps)
 nix develop
 
-uv venv --python 3.12
-source .venv/bin/activate
-
-uv sync --all-extras
+uv sync --all-extras --no-extra dds
 
 # type check
 uv run mypy dimos

docs/installation/osx.md

@@ -31,10 +31,7 @@ export GIT_LFS_SKIP_SMUDGE=1
 git clone -b dev https://github.com/dimensionalOS/dimos.git
 cd dimos
 
-uv venv --python 3.12
-source .venv/bin/activate
-
-uv sync --all-extras
+uv sync --all-extras --no-extra dds
 
 # type check
 uv run mypy dimos

docs/installation/ubuntu.md

@@ -29,10 +29,7 @@ export GIT_LFS_SKIP_SMUDGE=1
 git clone -b dev https://github.com/dimensionalOS/dimos.git
 cd dimos
 
-uv venv --python 3.12
-source .venv/bin/activate
-
-uv sync --all-extras
+uv sync --all-extras --no-extra dds
 
 # type check
 uv run mypy dimos