FIX selector = 0 returns all traces in select_traces

[wf-r]

Fix #3639 (selector = 0 in update_traces selects all traces, not only the first one)

Code PR

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• I have added tests (if submitting a new feature or correcting a bug) or
  modified existing tests.

[wf-r]

Hmm, I cannot connect the failed test with my changes. Anybody an idea?

[nicolaskruchten]

Thanks!