chore: Fix nightly debug vk check

[federicobarbacovi]

The Chonk standalone vk check was failing because:

• The native preset was not used to resolve bb (so we were resolving build/bin/bb instead of build-debug/bin/bb)
• The VK check did not disable asserts (so when checking VKs we would detect mismatches due to the dummy data supplied to build VKs)

This PR fixes the above issues:

• Resolve bb using the script preset-build-dir with argument NATIVE_PRESET
• Add a flag to the check command in the bb api that disables asserts when checking vks