I am working on this via:
http://stackoverflow.com/questions/15706969/how-to-create-and-save-ekcalendar-on-ios-6
It is a bummer. I am thinking that having a method called "GetDefaultCalendarAsync" would be nice to have as sometimes that is what you want to do.
I am going to implement how they have it on stackoverflow. I have read several articles now saying the same thing.