SlowLoggers using single logger (#56708)

[pgomulka]

Slow loggers should use single shared logger as otherwise when index is
deleted the log4j logger will remain reachable (log4j is caching) and
will create a memory leak.

closes #56171

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[elasticmachine]

Pinging @elastic/es-core-infra (:Core/Infra/Logging)