Update formio-builder Storybook and switch Storybook from Webpack to Vite

[annashamray]

All changes should be done in the formio-builder repo

Tasks:

• update SB from 8 to 9
• update SB from 9 to 10
  • upgrade SB
  • replace test runner with vitest
  • use vite to build the library and remove cjs build
• switch Storybook from Webpack to Vite
• switch unit tests from jest to vitest