[Remote segments] Add backpressure in write path on segments lag between local and remote store (#7459)

[ashking94]

Description

This backports #7459

Related Issues

Resolves #7424

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• RESULT: SUCCESS ✅
• URL: https://build.ci.opensearch.org/job/gradle-check/16164/
• CommitID: e039358

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Codecov Report

Merging #7720 (e039358) into 2.x (92571b7) will decrease coverage by 0.08%.
The diff coverage is 73.75%.

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- Coverage     70.61%   70.53%   -0.08%     
- Complexity    56364    56375      +11     
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  Files          4663     4663              
  Lines        267530   267604      +74     
  Branches      39616    39626      +10     
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- Hits         188907   188764     -143     
- Misses        62303    62576     +273     
+ Partials      16320    16264      -56     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...rg/opensearch/common/settings/ClusterSettings.java	92.85% <ø> (ø)
...c/main/java/org/opensearch/index/IndexService.java	73.36% <ø> (-0.68%)	⬇️
...x/remote/RemoteRefreshSegmentPressureSettings.java	94.44% <ø> (-5.56%)	⬇️
...ain/java/org/opensearch/indices/IndicesModule.java	96.46% <0.00%> (-1.74%)	⬇️
...ensearch/action/bulk/TransportShardBulkAction.java	75.65% <14.28%> (-0.53%)	⬇️
...ex/remote/RemoteRefreshSegmentPressureService.java	77.50% <25.00%> (-4.65%)	⬇️
...ch/indices/cluster/IndicesClusterStateService.java	74.08% <33.33%> (+3.62%)	⬆️
...arch/index/remote/RemoteRefreshSegmentTracker.java	88.65% <63.63%> (+0.23%)	⬆️
...in/java/org/opensearch/index/shard/IndexShard.java	69.70% <66.66%> (-0.20%)	⬇️
...search/index/shard/RemoteStoreRefreshListener.java	84.95% <83.20%> (+3.39%)	⬆️
... and 1 more

... and 432 files with indirect coverage changes