Migrate RAPIDS to CCCL MR interface (new allocation APIs)

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As part of #2011, the RMM allocation APIs are changing to align with the new CCCL memory resource interface. All projects using RMM will need to apply the following migrations. For an example of these migrations, see the RMM internal migration changes: #2112

CCCL Memory Resource Interface Migration Guide

Action	Legacy Interface (deprecating soon)	CCCL Interface (new)
Synchronous allocation	allocate(size)	allocate_sync(size)
Stream-ordered allocation	allocate_async(size, stream)	allocate(stream, size)
Synchronous deallocation	deallocate(ptr, size)	deallocate_sync(ptr, size)
Stream-ordered deallocation	deallocate_async(ptr, size, stream)	deallocate(stream, ptr, size)

PRs:

• Migrate to new CCCL memory resource interface cudf#20513
• Migrate to new CCCL memory resource interface rapidsmpf#635
• Migrate to new CCCL memory resource interface cuvs#1502
• Migrate to new CCCL memory resource interface cumlprims_mg#19
• Migrate to new CCCL memory resource interface cuml#7450
• Migrate cugraph to CCCL memory resource interface cugraph#5337