chore: upgrade cutlass 4.0

[zhyncs]

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[elfiegg]

Hey @zhyncs, could you please help take a look or assign to the right person: https://github.com/sgl-project/sgl-attn/pull/2/files in order to compile sgl-kernels with CUTLASS 4.0?

[elfiegg]

Provided an update in #6336.