feat: support orchideight, add new widget for totals, new widgetvars

[WolfwithSword]

• Adds support for ordertype orchid eight from goaffpro, and katdragonz
• Adds new widget js vars that are pre-filtered event lists
  • OrderEventTypeList
  • SubEventTypeList
    • includes gifted inside
  • TokenEventTypeList
  • DonationEventTypeList
    • Not used in a preset atm
  • FollowEventTypeList
• New subathon_totals websocket handler and event data
  • contains data for counts and sums of all the filtered events (except donations), includes moneysum from subathon data.
  • new preset generic/totals/totals.html to take advantage of this
• optimizations to DB tick write events
• optimizations and cleanup in general
• In overlay editor, add CTRL holding to adjust width/height bounds of a widget.
• Made goaffpro settings expanders dynamic based on the enums that are enabled, making adding new sites much easier
  • as part of this, moved the site mapping and such to an enum helper
• reformat and organize webhook logging event selection
• refactors whole settings page UI to be more compact
• added order-items count to subathon totals widgets and socket data
• added ui configurable external-subs based on Value meta string matching
• new event alert widget

closes #196
closes #204
closes #208