add module: 'ES2022', support newer moduleResolution kinds, support cts + mts

[ezolenko]

Summary

Fix for #437

Details

• keeping node* moduleResolution option as is ("node", "node16", "nodenext")
• overriding "classic" and empty to Node10 (old behavior was overriding everything to Node10)
• overriding "bundler" to Node16

[agilgur5]

Replaced by #453

[agilgur5]

Or rather, this got split into multiple PRs it looks like:

• support newer moduleResolution kinds, update build to TS 5.x #453 for moduleResolution changes
• cts/mts support #451 for cts + mts
• add module: 'ES2022' support #450 for module: 'ES2022'

Much nicer and easier to read as separate PRs!

[ezolenko]

Yeah, ignore that PR, I started too many changes at once and updated deps too far and that required yet more changes and so on (we'd still have to figure out ts-jest problems eventually I guess). All interesting changes are pulled out into those 3 PRs

[agilgur5]

Ah right, ts-jest is having issues because jest's ESM support is still experimental, meaning some CJS is still needed. ts-jest now has some support too now though, so might be able to get it to work that way.

EDIT: welp, that gives even more problems because some of the test code does not work in ESM mode (e.g. __dirname, require for tslib, and imports of CJS packages)